So why is it so difficult for me to ask for a moment of help from the man who also wanted a second child?

So why is it so difficult for me to ask for a moment of help from the man who also wanted a second child?
Involved fathers are the best. Dads in general so often get a bad rap for just sitting on the couch while the kids run mom ragged. Not all males of the species are so out of tune with their offspring’s needs. So let’s hear it for fathers!